Guest Feature: Understanding Repeating Relationship Patterns Introducing an Article by Morgan Lloyd, LCSW

Guest Feature by Morgan Lloyd, LCSW
Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Walnut Creek, CA

Many people notice they keep choosing similar romantic partners, even when those relationships don’t lead to the outcome they want. These repeated relationship dynamics can feel confusing and discouraging, especially when someone is actively trying to make different choices.

Explore why these patterns often show up in dating and long-term relationships.

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Signs You’re Stuck in Survival Mode

Do you feel constantly tired, anxious, or disconnected? You may be stuck in survival mode — your body’s long-term response to stress.

You might be functioning well on the outside — working, parenting, showing up — but inside, your body feels tense, your mind races, and rest never feels restorative.

Learn how to recognize the signs and how EMDR therapy can help you reclaim calm and safety from within.

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Leslie Hemedes
How Unresolved Trauma Shows Up in Relationships

Have you ever noticed yourself reacting strongly in a relationship — even when the situation doesn’t seem to warrant it? Maybe a partner’s tone sends your heart racing. Or a friend’s silence makes you feel invisible and small.

Unresolved trauma can quietly shape how we connect, communicate, and love.

Learn how past experiences influence relationship patterns — and how EMDR therapy helps heal emotional wounds so you can build deeper, safer connections.

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Leslie Hemedes
How Chronic Stress Affects the Gut-Brain Connection

Everyone feels stress from time to time. But when stress becomes chronic, the effects extend far beyond the mind — they begin to alter the very systems that keep your body balanced.

Chronic stress doesn’t just live in your mind — it lives in your body.

Learn how stress impacts the gut-brain connection and how EMDR therapy can help calm your nervous system, ease gut symptoms, and restore emotional balance.

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Small Daily Practices That Rebuild Emotional Safety

When life feels uncertain, relationships feel fragile, or your body feels constantly on alert, it’s a sign that emotional safety has been disrupted.

Emotional safety isn’t rebuilt overnight — it grows through consistent, gentle moments of care and presence.

Learn small daily practices to restore your sense of calm, and how EMDR therapy can help you deepen that safety from the inside out.

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Leslie Hemedes
How to Recognize When You’re Disconnected from Your Body

Have you ever noticed yourself moving through life on autopilot — doing, thinking, achieving — yet feeling oddly absent from your own experience? Perhaps you struggle to relax, can’t identify what you’re feeling, or find it hard to notice hunger, fatigue, or pain until it’s extreme.

Disconnection from your body often stems from trauma or chronic stress — leaving you feeling numb, detached, or constantly “in your head.”

Discover how to recognize the signs and how EMDR therapy can help you rebuild trust and safety within yourself.

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Leslie Hemedes
How EMDR Helps Heal Childhood Wounds That Still Affect You Today

Have you ever wondered why certain situations — criticism, rejection, or conflict — feel disproportionately painful? Or why patterns in relationships seem to repeat, even when you’ve promised yourself things will be different?

Childhood wounds can shape how we see ourselves and others long into adulthood. EMDR therapy offers a gentle, evidence-based way to heal those deep-rooted patterns and reconnect with your true self. Learn how EMDR helps you move beyond old pain and create lasting change.

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Can I still do EMDR if I do not remember all the details of my trauma?

One of the most common concerns people have before starting trauma therapy is this:

“I know something painful happened, but I can’t remember all the details. Can EMDR still help me?”

The short answer is yes — absolutely.

Learn how EMDR helps the brain heal from incomplete or fragmented memories and how therapy supports lasting emotional recovery for clients in Walnut Creek, Lafayette, Orinda, Danville, Pleasant Hill, Concord, San Ramon, and Alamo.

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Leslie Hemedes
5 EMDR-Inspired Exercises You Can Do at Home

If you’ve ever experienced anxiety, intrusive thoughts, or stress that feels difficult to shake, you know that healing isn’t always a purely mental process. Sometimes, your body holds on to distress even when your mind understands that you’re safe.

Discover 5 EMDR-inspired exercises you can do at home to calm your nervous system, ease anxiety, and build resilience. Learn how EMDR therapy and individual counseling support deeper healing for clients in Walnut Creek, Lafayette, Orinda, Danville, Pleasant Hill, Concord, San Ramon, and Alamo.

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Leslie Hemedes
5 Breathing Techniques to Calm an Overactive Nervous System

When your mind won’t slow down, your heart races, or your body feels tense and restless, chances are your nervous system is working overtime. Modern life keeps most of us in a near-constant state of alert — juggling work demands, family obligations, and emotional stress. For people who have experienced trauma, anxiety, or chronic stress, the nervous system can become stuck in survival mode.

Learn 5 effective breathing techniques to calm an overactive nervous system. Discover how EMDR and therapy can help restore balance and emotional regulation for clients in Walnut Creek, Lafayette, Orinda, Danville, Pleasant Hill, Concord, San Ramon, and Alamo.

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Leslie Hemedes
How EMDR Complements Medication for Anxiety and PTSD

Anxiety and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) can take a profound toll on both mind and body. Many people seek relief through medication—and for good reason. Antidepressants and anti-anxiety medications can ease symptoms, restore sleep, and make daily life more manageable.

Discover how EMDR complements medication for anxiety and PTSD. Learn how therapy and medication work together for effective, long-term healing for clients in Walnut Creek, Lafayette, Orinda, Danville, Pleasant Hill, Concord, San Ramon, and Alamo.

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Leslie Hemedes
How Trauma Impacts Your Window of Tolerance (and How to Expand It)

Everyone has a natural capacity to handle stress, emotions, and challenges in life. This capacity—known as your Window of Tolerance—determines how calm, balanced, and connected you feel even in the face of stress.

When you’re within this window, you can think clearly, respond intentionally, and stay grounded. But when trauma or chronic stress affects your nervous system, that window often becomes much smaller.

Discover how trauma affects your Window of Tolerance and learn evidence-based strategies to expand it. Explore how EMDR therapy and trauma-informed counseling help restore calm, connection, and resilience for clients in Walnut Creek, Lafayette, Orinda, Danville, Pleasant Hill, Concord, San Ramon, and Alamo.

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Leslie Hemedes
Why Healing Isn’t Just in the Mind: The Body’s Role in Processing Trauma

Even when your mind understands you’re safe, your body may still be carrying the residue of past experiences. Trauma leaves imprints not only in memories and emotions but also in the muscles, breath, and nervous system. Trauma doesn’t just live in your thoughts — it lives in your body.

Learn how the nervous system holds on to past pain, and how EMDR therapy helps you release, reprocess, and reclaim safety from within. Serving clients in Walnut Creek, Lafayette, Orinda, Danville, Pleasant Hill, Concord, San Ramon, and Alamo.

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Leslie Hemedes
Is EMDR Effective for Grief and Loss?

Grieving the loss of someone or something deeply meaningful can feel like your entire world has shifted. While time and support can help, some forms of grief stay “stuck,” making it hard to move forward. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy offers a powerful, evidence-based way to process the emotional and physical pain of loss. Unlike traditional talk therapy, EMDR helps your brain and body release distressing memories, reduce guilt, and rediscover peace. Learn how EMDR can support you through grief, trauma, or complicated loss—helping you honor your memories while reconnecting with life. Serving clients in Walnut Creek, Lafayette, Orinda, Danville, Pleasant Hill, Concord, San Ramon, and Alamo.

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Leslie Hemedes
Navigating Divorce: Finding Healing and Renewal After Marriage

Divorce represents one of life's most challenging transitions—a process that reshapes your identity, relationships, and daily routines. While statistics suggest that approximately 40-50% of marriages end in dissolution, these numbers fail to capture the deeply personal nature of this experience. Each person's divorce journey is uniquely influenced by factors like marriage duration, presence of children, financial circumstances, and the nature of the separation itself.

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The Complete Guide to Breaking Down Self-Care: Essential Practices for East Bay Residents

In today's fast-paced world, especially in the bustling communities of the East Bay Area, "self-care" has become a popular buzzword. But what does genuine self-care actually entail beyond bubble baths and scented candles? For residents of Walnut Creek, Orinda, and surrounding communities, understanding the deeper dimensions of self-care is essential for maintaining mental wellness in our high-pressure environment.

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Leslie Hemedes
High-Functioning Anxiety: Hidden Struggle and Healing with EMDR Therapy in the East Bay Area

Do you appear to have it all together on the outside while battling a constant storm of worry within? High-functioning anxiety affects countless individuals throughout the East Bay Area. This common yet often unrecognized condition keeps many trapped in a cycle of perfectionism, overachievement, and internal distress that few others can see. High-functioning anxiety isn't an official clinical diagnosis, but it describes a very real experience: functioning well in daily life while experiencing significant anxiety symptoms.

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EMDR Therapy: A Breakthrough Treatment for Social Anxiety

Social anxiety can feel like an invisible prison, trapping you in a cycle of fear, avoidance, and self-doubt. For many residents of Concord, Walnut Creek, Lafayette, Orinda, Danville, San Ramon, Alamo, and Pleasant Hill, social anxiety limits career opportunities, strains relationships, and prevents full participation in community life. While traditional treatments offer some relief, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy has emerged as a breakthrough treatment for social anxiety, offering hope to those who have struggled to find effective help through conventional approaches.

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Using EMDR to Transform Perfectionist Thinking Patterns

Perfectionism can feel like both a blessing and a curse. On one hand, it drives achievement and excellence. On the other, it can lead to anxiety, burnout, and never feeling quite good enough. Perfectionism has become an exhausting way of life that impacts their mental health, relationships, and overall well-being. EMDR therapy offers a powerful approach to transforming these perfectionist thinking patterns at their core, providing lasting relief and a healthier relationship with achievement and self-worth.

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